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I have been married for 23 years and I adore my wife. About 20 years ago, my wife befriended a coworker who was male (Rich). They attended conferences in the same hotel had meetings together, had lunches dates, talked a lot on the phone, etc. She also indicated that he make comments to her about having affairs, but he does it in a very not threatening and kidding manner. (As a side note, his current wife was married to another man and she cheated on him with Rich and she ended up leaving her husband and marrying Rich.)
Rich left the job he had with my wife about 10 years ago, but they still remain in contact and occasionally have lunch together.
My wife has repeatedly told me that they are just good friends and I should not worry. In my many conversations about this situation with her, my wife does admit that Rich talks to her about he how he gets no sex and his relationship is his wife is bad. I have told her that Rich is trying to seduce her, but my wife says that I have nothing to worry about.
On two different past occasions, I have read messages from Rich to my wife that were sexual in nature and was an attempt in my opinion to get my wife in bed. I asked my wife about it and her response is that Rich says things like that when he is drinking and she just try’s to keep her distance when this happens.
Last week, I found an instant message from him on face book to my wife. He told my wife that he was going to be in a nearby large city and that she should come up and join him for the night. My wife’s response was, “Nope, What about your wife?” When I asked her about this, she gave me the same responses. They are just friends, he says things like that when he has been drinking, etc.
My wife has no intention of ever stopping their relationship and I am not supposed to be so jealous. But this is really eating away at me and I am really worried as I would never has a relationship like this with another woman.
My question is: Do you think I have something to worry about?
I have a similar quandary-although not as ‘advanced” as yours …my wife went to lunch (same car) with a male co-worker I have never met and never told me about it! In your case I would talk to your wife and let her know this guy makes you uncomfortable! Drinking is NO EXCUSE for seducing and or raunchy suggestions period!! I might ask if your wife historically has had many lunches, and male friends in the past? MY wife NEVER goes to lunch with anyone so it was a pattern break!
Hi Dan,
I understand how you felt. The original intention of having lunch is not “wrong”. The problem is that emotional attachments happen. As the friendship grows and deepens it is impossible to avoid developing an emotional attachment. So the best practice answer would be “no, a married person should not have lunch everyday with a work colleague of the opposite sex”. This is called putting hedges of protection around their marriage. It will pay off in the end.
Sincere
My husband and I have been married for 28 years. My husband has recently gone back to college, and he has been helping a classmate who is living at home she has 2 young children and pays no rent and gets child support and she has a job. My husband said because she was not irritating, he was gravitated to her. He has been picking her up from home and taking her school and from school back to her house. He leaves our apt to pick her up at 6:15 am and drops her off at school around 7:45-7:50am. I went with him one morning which took only 20 minutes. I asked why it takes so long to get back since it’s only a 20 min drive. He told me that they sit in the parking lot and talk. He was picking her up twice a week and buying her breakfast. He went to her work and bought pizza and gave her a tip. He told me that he would rather have her wait on him so he could give her a tip than someone else. I asked him what about gas? He told me he would never ask her for gas money, even when he takes her to places to study. I told him that his car is very old and will need repairs soon. He said he didn’t care cause if it meant helping her out that she is safe that is all that matters, and it made him feel good to have a friend to talk to other than me. I have my own car and he told me that if his car does break down and sked me if he could use my car to pick her up if needed. I said no, because i don’t want the extra miles and wear and tear on my car. He got upset. My husband had texted his friend and he asked me to come with him to her work so she and I could meet and possibly talk. We got there and she told my husband that she feels comfortable with her ex taking her home. My husband offered to take her home and he also told her if that if she ever needed a ride home that he could come and pick her up no matter how late it was. I felt little because he didn’t ask me if it was ok. Her ex showed up and he was not happy to see husband there at her work. His female friend decided to go with her ex and my husband, and I left. I asked what was going between them. He told me there is nothing going on and that i was his priority. I told him he was doing too much to help her and that her ex (now bf again) didn’t seem to like him being around her. A couple of days passed, and she called for ride to school. My husband went and picked her up and came home and informed me that she will not need a ride home or be picked in the morning anymore because she got back with her ex and he would give her rides to school and back home. My husband seemed upset, and his eyes were watery as if he was about to cry. I asked what’s wrong he replied nothing. I told him it seemed as if was upset that his female friend got back together with her ex. His replied, no I’m not upset just disappointed. From that point on he was cold and distant. I feel as if there is something more that is going on and when i asked if there was anything going on he said he’s nothing wrong and why would ask him that. He said to me you don’t trust me, and you are jealous of her. I told we have been married 28 yrs and I do trust him, and I am not jealous. I just want to know what is going on. He said nothing and left at that. That night around 10pm he texted her and told her if she a needed a ride to school that he would pick her up. He waited around to hear from her and made a comment that if he didn’t hear from her by a certain time that he was not going to worry about picking her up. We went to bed and he was anxiously awaiting her text. Once she texted, he sprung out of bed to see what her response was. I told him that i was very uncomfortable with this situation and he told me that he sent a text to all his friends that he be able to talk, meet or give a ride because he was concentrating on schooling and himself. I told he didn’t stop seeing his friends and he told me it was because of this 1 friend my wife who drove me to do this. I’ve been thinking a lot about what occurred, and my walls are very high. He said that his walls are up to. I asked my husband is he happy in our marriage? He said yes, but if I felt different that we could help each other pay our bills off and part ways. I feel so lost and hurt. I’m thinking maybe divorce would benefit us both. I don’t want that, but I don’t want to continue to live this way. I don’t know what to do.
Dear Maria,
I think your gut instinct might be already sending off the alarm. When you marry you vow ✌️forsake all others✌️comes to the top of my mind. ✌️In sickness and health✌️. There is an underlying problem here. He is YOUR husband. Not on lone to her. This is triangulation. And it might be more. There is work to be done. It’s starts with boundaries. Possibly when it first started you were trusting enough to not pay it much attention. But it was probably much more then than you suspected. You are not comfortable with this. Then let it be known. Let it be known to your husband and let it be known to this other woman. That is what she is. The other woman. This won’t be easy but I think you get them in the same room and you tell them you are done with putting up with this inappropriate ✌️ALLEGED✌️friendship. Do it with confidence and be direct. If your husband tries to defend his inappropriate behavior, or refuses to stop this, you have a serious problem. Put your foot down. Or set him free. He can move out and cater to his lady friend. There is not enough room in a marriage for a 3rd person. You have the divine right to protect your marriage. She needs to go or he does. I am sorry you are going through this. I hope that helps. You hang in there. Get err done. The sooner the better.
Sincere