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In the society, the stable relationship can be helpful for many facets of your life. You can be confident when communicating with others, strengthening the relations with people surrounding, or improving many facets of your life if you build good relationships up. However, the life is not so smooth, and not all of the relationships reach the happy endings. The complicated problems can occur sometimes, or some misunderstanding cannot be avoided when people do not believe each other. People can get stuck if they do not find solutions to their relationships. As a result, some useful advice is necessary from someone experienced.
A lot of people seek advice on their relationships by asking their close friends or members in their families. Some will directly ask for a psychic or a fortune teller’s help. Others choose to get the recommendations on the Internet. When using the useful online services, perhaps they are in need of someone’s comments, or they do not want to share the personal matters with their close people.
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More about types of relationships
Relationships can be classified into many different types. Understanding these ones can help people receive the best advice and solutions to their problems.
Relations in love
The love of two people can be known as one type of the relationship. When people fall in love; happiness, sweetness, sorrow, or despair are some issues that cannot be stayed away. Some couples need the handy guidance or solutions to the unexpected when their love affairs tend to fall down.
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Friendships
The relations in the friends sometimes can break down. It seems hard to keep you stay away the disagreements over the opinions with your friends; therefore, some advice is actually needed to heal these splits within your friendship.
Relations in Family
Frequently, we can have different opinions about hobbies, attitudes, and manners even with our siblings or members in family, which can cause the conflicts. We can share and discuss together but what can you do when nobody in your family understands or disagrees with your ideas? Maintaining the healthy relationship has a profound influence on the mentalities of ourselves or families.
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Relations in the society
The relations in work and in the society are very important. It is not easy to balance these in the harmony.
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Spiritual Advice
A few problems in relations with your lover, your boss, or your sibling can be solved by some spiritual advice. People can find the solutions, insight or the hidden reasons when they get some guidance from Spiritual world.
The advice from the couples
Find some couples and listen to their advice. These people can share their experiences or help to analyze your problems. For instance, you can receive their recommendations when preparing to get married. In addition, thanks to theirs, you will know the way to improve the current tension in your relationship.
The counseling from individuals
With the development of the technology, you can enter the chat rooms and confer with your close friend or someone else about your problems. For example, if your friend has ever broken up with someone, you can give them some counseling via chatting online.
I’ve been dating a man for almost two years. I can tell he’s very hurt and has his defense mode up from his past relationship which broke his trust and also past family hurt. I need some advice on how to go about this. We finally got into a discussion where I said I feel like things are becoming confusing and I feel like he’s hurt and 3 things he said that stood out to me.
1. He said if you can see that I’m hurt from my past on the inside “did I ever think that maybe because he has been hurt so bad in his past that’s why he acting the way he’s acting and has this wall up. “ I’m not justifying it. “Which I then thought that is a very possible true situation.
2. The second thing he said was “ I know I’m dealing from a hurt place and I knows I makes it hard for someone to deal with me and it patience’s to try and break that trust wall down but I’m not trying to intentionally hurt so maybe I can’t give you what I want then” So when he said that I automatically went to overthinking or not overthinking that there’s no chance.
3. The last thing that he said that caught my attention was I told him that sometimes I feel like he’s unapologetic since he has a defensive mode up. He said “ I don’t never truly mean to hurt you and I do apologize I am sorry if I ever made you feel that way. All I know is I want you in my life whether we are together or even if we’re not I want you in my life forever”.
These three things that he said confuse me. I kind of feel like the connection that we do have especially when we’re together it’s completely different and amazing I’ve never felt the way I felt with anyone when I’m with him. I kind of feel like he was my soulmate but with all that he just said I feeling like I just got cut off at my knees. I’m not going to act like I’m perfect there are things that I do need to work on I am a over thinker really bad and the overthinking causes me not to listen properly also a thing that bothers him is that I don’t call him he does all the calling and the only reason why I don’t is because I feel like he is a busy person man and I don’t want to interrupt or feel like I’m bothering someone which he says I’m not but my overthinking and that voice in my head says otherwise and I don’t like when people have to call me back it’s like a sense of pride I have.
I’m not sure what to think about what has conspired. I get it, what he said and what happen now once I stopped looking at it from just my point of view but we have this connection and bond and love for each other like no other and when I picture us we are together. And I do pray that we are together and have a strong bond and connection but when he said together or not that made me give up hope and I can’t see myself right now just being only friends we’ve been through to much so far and even planned a possible future together so because I feel like he’s my other half. Bur now don’t know if this is something that’s telling me to run so I don’t know what to do. So my overthinking is going crazy right now. This just happened earlier today of course he checked on me before the night and it is a good night but I don’t know how to feel what to do anymore. So I’m just hoping for some thoughts, opinions, advice?
o we are students in the same class and we started hanging after school and became hanging on none school days became sleeping over – recently my parents where on vacation for a week and he slept over the whole week and now I sleep over at his house and we see eachother often the problem is he is not rlly a texter so everything comes from me
And from the beginning I rlly told him like I didn’t like it that he doesn’t text me and stuff like that and when we arange plans it’s 80% coming from me but we daily talk about the texting and he tells me he doenst rlly text, and we made several promises that he would text me everyday and he stil didn’t doe it so 2 days ago we made a pinky promise and today we didn’t de eachother … and he didn’t text all day What does this mean ?
Hi Ella,
I wouldn’t rely too much on texting to be a strong indicator of whether or not he’s truly interested. I’ve been getting to know someone just like this, and it threw me waaaay off at first. I couldn’t figure out why he wasn’t texting me back or engaging in conversation…it really got to me at first and I almost called it quits on the whole thing because I assumed he was just playing me out and I was wasting my time.
It turns out, he just doesn’t like to text. I didn’t ask, I just figured it out on my own. Here’s how you can as well:
1. Pay attention to what he does with his phone while he’s with you. Is he texting and engaged in other things while you’re with him? If so, that may be a red flag that requires more attention. If he’s not worried about his phone, not checking his messages constantly, etc while you’re with him, it probably speaks to his general nature when it comes to communicating via text. It all clicked for me when I noticed that he would leave his phone in other rooms and forget where it was, and was only checking it a few times over a 24 hour period. It’s just the way he’s accustomed to utilizing his device and it maintains a healthy screen/life balance. I’ve grown to see it as a positive, but I understand why you question it.
2. Pay attention to what he’s texting you about. Does he text you when he wants to see you/to make plans? If so, that’s probably what he uses texting for in general and that’s GREAT! If he’s texting you “hey” or “what’s up” and letting the conversation fizzle shortly after, you may not be the only person he’s communicating with. If you’re not committed that’s fine, he doesn’t owe that to you, just keep yourself one step behind him when it comes to emotional investment (even though it’s hard when we get excited about a new guy) and let him come to you.
Sincere
Hello, I hope you are well. I have a question and I hope you can help me. I texted with a boy for about eight months. We never saw each other. We live in two different cities. He knew what I looked like, and I had no idea about his physical appearance. I “met” him on the website. He insisted on texting about sex and wanted me to have sex on camera (to which I did not agree), we continued to write anyway, he still insisted. It turned out to be such a situation that I got a job in that city. Then he told me that he was planning to move and that he got a job in another city. When after that I didn’t want to talk about sex anymore, because I’m afraid I’ll have expectations (when that happened he blamed me for pushing and having too high expectations) he said he didn’t want to play with my feelings and that he wanted to let’s stop everything. My question is, was I a victim of this relationship or is he just busy? Married, has a girlfriend… He never asked me to see you. Thanks for your time and help. Have a nice day 🙂
Dear Marjia,
Here’s your answer, stay away from him. He is most likely cat fishing you. He keeps you on the side for ego validation. In other words, he uses you for sex and emotional care because he knows you love him and that makes him feel big. Please don’t second guess this. It’s the straight truth. A guy that wants you will make it crazy clear. You won’t have to worry whether he loves you or not. He’ll never make excuses to you. In order to really find that guy you have to 100% stop talking to this current guy.
Sincere