It is evident that a new relationship is full of jitters. Numerous problematic issues about the conversational topics, places of dating, interaction with one another’s friends, sweet-word expressions, etc., make many people feel anxious in the first few months. To nurture a relationship for the long-life development, we need the support from family members, friends, acquaintances, etc.
Nevertheless, the most crucial point is how much you and your beloved love each other. Know the ways to express your love appropriately? Know what you should and shouldn’t do? Know how to maintain the thrill of being in relationship all the time? Know how to keep your love flow smoothly? Put 6 following pieces of advice into practice to navigate the new relationship and to pass through the small stuff!
You are too industrious to meet your new interest very often a week. It is no matter indeed since everybody is busy. However, one day a week, spend time meeting each other, discussing new events, and having fun together. It helps to strengthen your love bond in the healthy manner.
Meeting too frequently is not good for all cases. Respect the flame’s privacy and never violate it no matter how intimate the relationship is now! The personal violation will seriously cause your romance to die young with suffocation.
Not everybody loves to be committed in the new relationship. It is matter of time and personal reference. Thus, don’t try to talk about the future until it is time to think of the long-term love. You want to be with your sweetheart for the rest of life. Let him know gently! The early excessive commitment may make him run in the opposite direction.
Some people tend to love themselves when it comes to the dreaming relationship. According to Review List Relationship Goals for 2021 that are Worth Achieving, the beloved loves you because you are special in the way you look and feel! Try to keep your own personal traits! How can he still love you when you become another person? Be confident to behave in your own way with the little adjustment to meet his favorite. Don’t forget to keep the frequent contact with your friends, the great support when the relationship comes to an end.
It is needless to tell your partner where and what you do all the time. The point is not to cheat him or her some issues related to past love, family disapproval, or physical problems, etc. Let him know if you are still friend with your ex. It is the big awkwardness if he witnesses two of you on the street with the empty head about the current situation, for instance. You know, jealousy is the big red flag in any relationship!
It is very infantile if you seek a quarrel with your beloved merely because he forgets to message you or he comes late in a few minutes. You may loose sleep due to the infrequent messages while he is sleeping very well. Objectively speaking, it is not the big problem to have any argument, for example. Therefore, be patient to evaluate the causes and the level of damage before making any verbal weapon.
Don’t expect your man can guess what is going on in your mind exactly as he is not a Psychic or a psychologist! Guessing to have fun sometimes is good, but the excessive assumptions may make you feel dissatisfied with incompatible understanding. Ask yourself whether you understand his innermost hopes or not! If you can’t fulfill the point, don’t play the high demand on the others.
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Hi there, I’m seeing this guy who I really like and hope he likes me. It was great this past few weeks, but right now I’m not so sure. We have seen each other for a month, and we are not exclusive. He texts me every now and then, especially on Instagram. Where he comments on my pictures and my story, we get along really well and chat really well. However, it’s been a couple of weeks and he hasn’t asked me out again. I have asked him, I asked him last week if he wanted to meet. He said can we the next week (which is this week) I said yes. He hasn’t tried, not even mentioned about seeing me again. I suffer from really bad anxiety, and I’ve been wanting to ask him how he feels and would like to understand where his head is at. I understand that men need space, I respect that completely. But it does feel like, he is stringing me along. I need to know how he feels, because to be honest, I feel very drained putting a lot of time and effort into someone. I don’t want to waste my time, I want to save myself from a bad heartbreak. I want to have a mature conversation with him and talk to him in a calm way. Reassuring him that I will do my very best to understand whatever he is going through and how he feels about me. But how do I go about it? What are the right questions to ask a guy without scaring him away? I don’t want to ruin my chances
Hi dear,
I would start off by taking the initiative and getting in touch with him yourself, which will show him you’re interested in his company. Meet up if you can just one-on-one and see how that experience goes. If you get along really well, great! Then you can hang out some more, and one night perhaps you can suggest dinner. Keep an eye out for continued interest on his part. If he contacts you without prompting, that’s a very good sign. If he never contacts you, he may not be interested, or he may be socially awkward and not know how to get in touch, which is something that comes up a lot with people, more than you’d expect (at least in my experience).
But basically if you hardly talk with this dude you can’t really tell him you’re madly in love with him. I think you know that. Wait a bit and hang out multiple times before you tell him you like him, much less that you love him.
That’s what I would do, anyway. Keep in mind I’m an anxious over-thinking person; maybe it doesn’t have to be that careful and he’ll be receptive to you straight-up telling him you like him a lot.
Sincere
Hi I had a calm argument with my boyfriend but we haven’t spoken in 4 days…
story:
we have been together for almost 4 years, we have a very nice relationship and quite frankly we argue very little. Last summer we had a big fallout, mostly due to me, and ended up cutting contact for like a month. During that month, he spoke to a friend ( girl) who he has been friends since before we met, and she is also a friend of his sisters. I never really liked her, and believed she had a thing for him, but nothing every happened between them. During this month, she initiated conversation and they talked everyday. Eventhough nothing physical happened, it hurt me a lot, however, after a month separated, he came back to me and we worked things through. Since a week before we got back to working things up he never spoke to her again. She wished him happy birthday a couple months later, and he replied with a polite thank you.
I have known this girl from a friend also before I had met my boyfriend. So i followed her on Instagram and so did my boyfriend. she’s very private and barely posts. a Couple months back, in my suggestions on Instagram it popped up that she had a new account, whilst have her “old one”. I saw only two people I knew followed her, its private and there’s only 2 pics. She still has her “old account” months pass, its been a year since our fallout, and her new account sometimes pops up, his sisters, nor him follow her. However 4 days ago, I instinctively check and I see that now his sisters follow that account and so does my boyfriend. It really upset me. I have never brought up following problems, and I’m not problematic in that way. he follows some of his exes and me too and i’ve never felt bad about that. But the fact that after so many months that this account has been created, the fact that its this person, and above all the fact that he found necessary to follow back an additional account of hers hurts me and is a betrayal for me. I know that the concept of the follow is small and stupid, but its the emotions surrounding it. So i asked him if we could discuss. mind you our discussion was very calm, and I was careful with my words, and i just told him how I felt and that it hurt me, and that i didn’t understand the action. During our conversation, he told me that he followed her because she asked for a follow, that I was being dramatic, that it was instagram and that I had a problem. I told him that hit wasn’t fair, because I was sharing my feelings and that my feelings were valid and so were his, but that dismissing it was hurtful. He told me :” im together with you no?” and also told me you seem to have a problem with her, and I did yes. Also when I asked him if they were friends, he said no, I asked him do you talk he said no, so I said why the need to follow the additional account, and he said its just an account and I followed back, like I do everyone. Honestly his reaction was painful. The conversation didn’t really reach a conclusion, I said what I needed to say, but his reaction even though I had been very clear was dissapointing. I left and so did he, he asked me if he should drive me to my car, I said I would walk. We haven’t talked in 4 days now…. Usually in any arguments or fights, I don’t really have an ego, and I don’t play the game of who calls or texts first. But now I’m very hurt, I don’t understand how we are in this situation, to me, the message I’m getting is : you feel this way, too bad, figure it out. I don’t see love or respect for this relationship, but its crazy and hard to accept because normally everything is fine. So I’m really in a position, where I gave him a couple days to at least reach out. I’m not saying he has to agree with me, but he has to acknowledge my feelings and make me feel better, that’s the basic needs in a relationship. I’m sad and shocked, but I also can’t bring myself to write to him, because even if I did, I said what I said, he reacted the way he did. What else is there left. Its painful