Love comes firstly, then marriage and finally a new baby. However, does everything go smooth at all times? The truth is a new baby might cause dozens of troubles for parents, especially for new ones. Different style of taking care of baby, lack of sleep and do not have time to enjoy together. All these things can affect new parents too much. Therefore, read some advice to help them overcome these troubles and associate with each other again.
Say “I love you” frequently
Before having the baby, you and your partner were in each other’s pocket and often shared all things together. However, now all your attention is concentrated on the little baby. Even you won’t have more time to take care of your partner. Sometimes, it makes your partner feel jealous. How to deal with relationship problems after having a baby? Try to make the spouse understand and adapt new changes. Always remind yourself about asking and caring of your partner every day, give a gift or create special affection to make him/her feel happy. Remember to avoid unnecessary arguments at the lowest level.
There are many issues occurring since you have a baby. Maybe, one of you will stay at home and take care of the baby; meanwhile, the other goes out for working. It’s certain that old routines or patterns will easily become disturbed. A simple example is that before having the baby, you and your husband often share the chores i.e. you cooked and he did the washing-up. However, when the baby arrived, you must stay at home, and he thinks that you should do both (cook and washing-up). Hence, if both of you don’t discuss about the chores, you and your husband will end in arguments.
Set up a “sleep plan”
Parenting is a tired mission. To make sure both are strong enough to take care of the baby, you need to form a “sleep plan”. The “sleep plan” will show who will be on-call at night. Normally, who gets up at night will feed the baby, so it’s often the mom. It means that when the mom often gets up at night. So, she needs to have a few hours to take small naps in the day time. And the dad will take care of the baby in that amount of time. Certainly, all are conditional upon you and your partner’s decision.
Have a life sex
Truly, woman often feels tired and unpleasant when making sex with her partner because she takes too much time to taking care of the baby. So, there will be a difference between romance and duty. She thinks that sex now is simply a chore and does not have any romantic affection. Improve it before everything goes down! Or you can eat something good such as steak, curry, celery, strawberries, etc. to add up power and energy.
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