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In the society, the stable relationship can be helpful for many facets of your life. You can be confident when communicating with others, strengthening the relations with people surrounding, or improving many facets of your life if you build good relationships up. However, the life is not so smooth, and not all of the relationships reach the happy endings. The complicated problems can occur sometimes, or some misunderstanding cannot be avoided when people do not believe each other. People can get stuck if they do not find solutions to their relationships. As a result, some useful advice is necessary from someone experienced.
A lot of people seek advice on their relationships by asking their close friends or members in their families. Some will directly ask for a psychic or a fortune teller’s help. Others choose to get the recommendations on the Internet. When using the useful online services, perhaps they are in need of someone’s comments, or they do not want to share the personal matters with their close people.
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More about types of relationships
Relationships can be classified into many different types. Understanding these ones can help people receive the best advice and solutions to their problems.
Relations in love
The love of two people can be known as one type of the relationship. When people fall in love; happiness, sweetness, sorrow, or despair are some issues that cannot be stayed away. Some couples need the handy guidance or solutions to the unexpected when their love affairs tend to fall down.
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Friendships
The relations in the friends sometimes can break down. It seems hard to keep you stay away the disagreements over the opinions with your friends; therefore, some advice is actually needed to heal these splits within your friendship.
Relations in Family
Frequently, we can have different opinions about hobbies, attitudes, and manners even with our siblings or members in family, which can cause the conflicts. We can share and discuss together but what can you do when nobody in your family understands or disagrees with your ideas? Maintaining the healthy relationship has a profound influence on the mentalities of ourselves or families.
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Relations in the society
The relations in work and in the society are very important. It is not easy to balance these in the harmony.
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Spiritual Advice
A few problems in relations with your lover, your boss, or your sibling can be solved by some spiritual advice. People can find the solutions, insight or the hidden reasons when they get some guidance from Spiritual world.
The advice from the couples
Find some couples and listen to their advice. These people can share their experiences or help to analyze your problems. For instance, you can receive their recommendations when preparing to get married. In addition, thanks to theirs, you will know the way to improve the current tension in your relationship.
The counseling from individuals
With the development of the technology, you can enter the chat rooms and confer with your close friend or someone else about your problems. For example, if your friend has ever broken up with someone, you can give them some counseling via chatting online.
I believe the guy that I’m with is playing mind games with me. We’ve been communicating with each other for about 2 to 2 and a half months now. But it’s like lately he’s seems to be distant towards me in communicating and plus I think he has emotional issues. He said he doesn’t know how to feel for anyone emotionally and I feel it’s gonna be a problem in this relationship. I love this guy but it’s like he’s giving me mixed signals and I don’t know what to think at this point. I don’t know if I should stay or just let him go.
Hi Hillary,
They were being distant because of how males tend to think. If it’s bad news and they don’t want to worry you, they will not talk about it but being with you makes them want to tell you. So they can become distant thinking they are helping you and protecting you when not having a reason for their distances is eating the woman up inside. So in each case, I asked the guy to be honest and tell me what was going on because I felt they were distant emotionally even if in the room with me. One time, I was surprised to see the guy break down and cry as he told me what he had been keeping from me that he thought might hurt me or worry me.
It could mean he is out of love, and it could mean that he just needs a little time alone. The key of a relationship is communication, so ask him, “what is it?” Then give him some time, see if the relationship of you two is back to the usual normalcy that you two shared.
If you love someone, you just let them go…and if they come back, then it’s because they too love you. So just have faith and let it go.
Hope that better things would be coming you way.
Hi! Probably wouldn’t matter to me if no one would read this but I just wanted to get things out of mind.. So I have this non-labelled relationship with someone for quite a while now… The thing is I don’t really know if I should still continue this or not cuz I don’t really know where we’re headed at.. Would I ever bring the question about us? Cuz I don’t really know what’s ‘us’ or if this person really likes me too cuz I think I love him already.. I don’t even know what say or how to tell him my feelings… we’ve done what a normal bf-gf would do but I don’t really know…
Hi L,
It might mean he is enjoying the time the two of you spend together as it is and doesn’t want it to change. Labels set up expectations and limitations. He may not want to conform to those standards at the moment or ever. He might just be sick of society norms. The best way to find out what he means is to ask him. Make sure you don’t come off as confrontational and assure him you just want to understand his thinking to see if you see life and relationships the same way. There is a big difference between thinking the term “boyfriend” is childish and wanting to leave the relationship open.
Some men don’t care for labels. (Especially ones who have recently been through a nasty divorce..) That said – if a man doesn’t care about labels, BUT he cares about YOU and a certain label is important to you, then he will give you that label if he loves you and wants to keep you around long-term.
Sincere
I met this guy on Tinder, we having been speaking for just over a month now, and have met up once with intention to meet again.. He seems great, and literally messaged everyday, not all day, as he works and obi has a life..
Why I’m looking for advice is because, I do not know how to ask, or even how to approach the whole conversation on what we are actually doing…
like is he also talking to other girls, am I allowed to chat to other guys.. etc etc like how do I go about finding out how he feels, or his views without scaring him off etc
Hi Dani,
Unfortunately the best (and really the only true) way to know is to just outright ask him. It might be unfortunate if you are too shy, scared, or it’s too awkward to ask (been there, done that many times), but it’s really the only way to truly know.
Still, there’s some ways you might be able to tell if his interested on your own:
He consistently texts/messages you. It doesn’t have to be constant, all day (he might be at work or sleep or playing a game or something) but if a guy likes you he’s going to be at least consistent with his messages toward you. You might not get a message every hour or all day every day or throughout the entire day, but every night after he gets off of work, he always makes sure to text you and call to talk until you guys fall asleep and he always texts you good morning. It’s not constant but it is consistent.
He actually talks to you first. If you are the one who has to always initiate conversation then that could be a red flag that he isn’t as interested in you as you are in him. If he’s interested in you, he will talk to you. He will message you and he will call you up. Maybe not every single time, but it won’t be just you messaging him all the time you want to talk, every single time you two talk.
He cares about what you have to say. He won’t brush you off or make you feel like he’s just asking questions to keep you talking. He will engage in the conversation with you, add to it, respond, and be able and willing to go back and forth with you about whatever topic. He won’t be distracted or giving you one-word answers. He will respectfully listen to you and the conversation won’t ever be one-sided or unbalanced.
When a guy is interested in a girl (and vice versa) he will want to learn as much as he can about her. If it’s early on in the relationship, or he finds it awkward, he might not admit that he wants to know everything about you (especially since it feels a little creepy to say it) but the signs will be obvious. He will ask questions about your personal life, even things that most people might not care about (“what’s your favorite [obscure thing]?”). He will be genuinely (slightly or full-on) enthusiastic to learn about the details of who you are as well, but only because he just genuinely wants to learn about you. He’ll want to know where you grew up, what your childhood was like, what made you who you are today, among other things.
He doesn’t just want to know sexual things about you. A guy might be genuinely enthusiastic to learn about your history, but if it’s only your sex-life history that he’s interested in that’s a red flag he just wants one thing from you. If you just want that from him as well, then more power to the pair of you, but if you legitimately want a full relationship with him, and he wants the same from you, he will ask you questions that deal with the above bulletpoint more than anything sexual. Not to say sexual subjects won’t or can’t come up, but it shouldn’t be the only thing he wants to know about you.
It’s clear he’s not talking to any other girls. This one can be harder to decipher, but if it’s clear that he is devoting his free time to spending it with you, then that’s usually a good sign that’s interested. If he spends his nights, almost every night, skyping or talking to you and it’s clear he’s not spending it with other girls, that’s a good sign that he’s interested in you as a serious potential partner.
Sincere
Hi Ladies, I’m new to this group and this is my first time posting this. I was with a guy for about a year, I knew something was always up as I would catch him out on small lies or inconsistency’s. Anyway he broke up with me and that was that. 2/3 months later he makes contact, we start talking again and he advises he wants to try again. I asked him to be honest about everything in our relationship before, he told me he had cheated, lied and there was betrayed. However after much going over it I decided to give it another go and draw a line. We started fresh and he came to live with me at Christmas and everything was going fine however I kept having insecure thoughts and negative thoughts. Anyway I told him about this and voiced it and one day when I was at the supermarket he packed up his stuff without telling me, flee my flat and left. I was in utter shock but we spoke decided to work it out and he came over to see me a few buttes after. However after a few wines I got very anxious and insecure about everything with the cheating and him just fleeing and said some extremely bad things in a argument…. I begged and begged for his forgiveness but sadly he ended it with me, I then the next day find out he is on hinge and confronted him about this to which he advised he was single and wanted to move on. I ended up blocking him (on WhatsApp) but now I’m feeling lots of regret for my actions and I still want to try again – I was considering sending him a iMessage text. Be great to hear your thoughts or similar experiences – thanks x
Hi Susan,
This question is hard to answer because somehow I am feeling the same way. What you can do is talk to your partner, let him know the damage that he did to you so he can realize how hard it is to just let go of that feeling. Tell him the question that’s been bothering you like “Why did he cheat? Am I not pretty enough? Is her body better?”, let him realize that you shouldn’t be asking this to yourself in the first place if he didn’t cheat. Let him know that because of his mistake, you’re losing your confidence to yourself! Confide to your partner, he must feel sorry after that but if he doesn’t , then I think you’re really not that important to him. I know that you somehow talked about it, but to let go of all the things that’s bothering you, you should let him know what you’re going through right now. You can start with saying “ Babe, I know that we’ve talked about it a million times but i can’t get it out of my head, I am feeling insecure… blah blah” Like that. How you’ll approach him is the key too
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I need advice on what I should do. I have been friends with the guy I was seeing since July. We started dating back in December. About two and a half weeks ago he called it off. A week before that he didn’t get into medical school. We are long distance but he told me since he didn’t get into medical school he was going to move back home where I am from. We run in the same friend group and see each other often and we are in the same wedding. He called it off via text btw. He told me how he is going through a life crisis, doesn’t have the energy for a long distance relationship due to his ex cheating, has a bad feeling about our relationship, and just needs space. He told me he felt stuck in the job he was in and feels like he is going nowhere. He blamed it on sex as well even though we talked about it and the reason why I have been skeptical. I don’t know what to do. Each day gets better but the missing him part gets more intense. Any advice?
Hi Bailey,
He is trying to figure out something and needs a break. Give him time and don’t call or text him anymore.
And finally, when he does call you, tell him “this is not the way to be in a committed relationship”. Your choice to continue with him further. I advise you against it, though. If he can’t communicate his feelings well with his girlfriend, vanishes and vamooses abruptly, he doesn’t need to be in that relationship and nor should you.
People like this should need to be taught that such careless behavior will only make them lonely in future. Really feel sad for him.
You deserve better.